Well, when I flex really hard. And when the lighting is just right. And if I squint my eyes just a little bit and turn my head about 30 degrees to the right.
Hey! Don’t rain on my parade, okay? This is significant! I can’t remember the last time I could even remotely see any resemblance of an anything-pack!
And yes, I have been known to spend good, quality time in front of the mirror admiring my pre-rockhard, washboard abs. My husband just rolls his eyes when he walks by and laughs, “Oh my gosh.”
Like I said, don’t rain on my parade! I focus on the progress. See, a lot of people will focus on the bellyfat and arm flab (or the stick arms and pigeon legs). They’ll look at what they don’t like and out of anger or distaste, will work out to change what they don’t like about themselves.
I have a different strategy. I choose to focus on what I do like and the progress that I have made. And I make fitness and nutrition about accentuating that, and allowing everything else to catch up to it. And that applies not just to whether I like how a certain body part looks. It applies to whether I’m happy with my energy levels, my current state of flexibility, and my ability to dance like a disco queen to a cheesy ABBA song.
Gratitude is one of the most powerful things in the universe. Be thankful for what you have. Focus on what you like about yourself, about the progress you have made, and you’re bound to get more of it. If you constantly focus on what you don’t like, you’ll always overlook the progress that you are making, and you’ll always be able to find one more thing you can pick on.
I challenge you to pick one thing you like about yourself. Do you have nice ankles? Or a nice, angled chin? No matter how miniscule, pick something. Focus on that. Spend time in the mirror looking at it. Yes, make your family think you’re totally vain about it!
Have you made the slightest bit of progress since you started working out? Dropped 2 pounds? Do your jeans feel just a looser? Dwell on that! Be thankful for it, and celebrate!
So don’t laugh at me when I shout from the rooftops that I have a 2-pack. That 2-pack is just the beginning of more packs!
“I saw the angel in the marble and carved until I set him free.” — Michelangelo
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